Being fearless is not about having no fear. It is about taking your fears and facing them head on. Do I have fears about moving to Germany? About being understood when I do not speak the language fluently (yet)? About making the right career move? About living up to my own expectations? Hell yes. Will those fears make me stronger? You better believe it.
At 22 years old, I was terrified of moving to Uganda without knowing a soul, but that year solidified my sense of self in ways I never could have imagined. Striking out on my own again at 25, I was certain I could conquer New York City, but anxious about channeling my sense of purpose into my coursework and my career path. But for the last four years I have taken deep satisfaction in being able to apply my analytical skills to issues that I am passionate about.
And now, nearly 31, I have plenty of fears about the next phase of my life. But I also know that the strength I have gained from facing my fears is something I would not trade for anything. So I have three words for you: bring it on.
I admire your courage in facing up to fears in such a way that not only your life is enriched but the lives of all of us. I hope you like Germany. I only lived there a few months (with only a beginner’s knowledge of the language, but I found it to be a friendly place to alight.
It’s been a while since I’ve traveled but I used to be extremely restless and anxious to see the world – rarely did I travel with another person – and I look back with enjoyment at some of my experiences. Good luck – Enjoy!!!!
You’re gonna kick Germany’s butt. I mean, if that’s what you want to do. Also, every single German person I’ve met has been down right awesome. Not sure if I just got lucky or the people were, in general, cool.
Granny Smith and Tumblewords: Thank you for your good wishes!
Madness: I totally do! Those Germans do tend to be pretty cool, so I’m looking forward to hanging out on their turf.